Were you bald before?

If you’re a person with natural hair, chances are that you’ve been asked this question. It’s a question that’s not only offensive, but also very ignorant on the part of the asker. There are many benefits to having natural hair—it requires less maintenance than getting perms or weaves, it can be styled in many different ways, and it allows you to express yourself however you choose! While some people may find it unflattering or unappealing at first glance (and that is their right), there are still countless reasons why so many women have chosen to let their natural curls flow free.

However…

If someone isn’t interested in your opinion on what they should do with their own head (or lack thereof), then they shouldn’t expect an answer from anyone else either!

What is your hair type?

• What is your hair type?
• Are you sure?
• What do you mean, “what is my hair type”?

You’ve probably heard that question before. It’s an easy conversation starter, but it can also be a bit annoying to people with natural hair. The problem is that since there are so many different types of curls and kinks in this world, it’s not like there’s one single way to look at or classify a person’s tresses. And even for those who have the same texture as you do, something may cause their curls to behave differently from yours (like product choice or water hardness). In short: A good stylist will ask these questions because they want to get an idea of what products would work best on your head—but if all the stylists around town just assume that everyone has fine Caucasian curls because all their clients do (which happens all too often), then how will anyone ever find a good stylist who knows how to handle all sorts of textures?

Who did your hair ?

• “Who did your hair?”
• “Is that a wig?”
• “I can’t believe you got your hair done!”
• “Your hair is so long; do you wash it every day?”

So have you tried products that don’t work?

You don’t have to try every product on the market, because most products are made for people with different hair types.

If you’re thinking of trying a new product but haven’t found anything that works for your hair type yet, remember to check if it’s made specifically for curly or kinky hair. If it’s not, then I recommend avoiding that particular product and checking again in about six months. This will give you time to learn more about your natural texture and find out which styling products work best for you.

It can be expensive and time-consuming if you buy every single product available—especially when many of them aren’t designed specifically for African American women!

Is your hair real?

“Is your hair real?”

If you have natural hair, you may have been asked this question. It’s a fair question: those with curly and kinky textures are often accused of having “wigs” or wearing weaves. There are many reasons why people ask if someone’s hair is real, but ultimately it has to do with the fact that these kinds of questions carry an undercurrent of racism (Read: Why Do People Think I’m Wearing A Wig?). Many people don’t realize that black women could possibly be born with their natural texture, so they assume that it must be fake. They also assume there is something wrong with anyone who would choose not to straighten their hair—as if straightening one’s own mane is more effortless than living in a state of authenticity and acceptance for what you were blessed with at birth!

This stereotype has been long-established in our society, which can make it difficult for some people (especially those who work hard on their appearance) when looking for jobs where appearances matter. However annoying these questions may be for those who already feel attacked by society at large just because they’ve chosen to wear their own unique hairstyle instead of conforming to mainstream beauty standards, these inquiries about authenticity shouldn’t stop women from embracing their natural selves–or any other person from doing so either!

Don’t you get tired of doing your hair?

If you don’t like doing your hair, it’s best to keep that to yourself. If you have the option of relaxing or straightening it, then you should do whatever makes life easier for you.

However, if you have gone natural (or are planning on going natural) and someone asks why—don’t take offense! This question is often asked out of curiosity rather than malice. You may want to consider their intent before responding with anger or frustration. It’s important that we work together as allies in this movement; there will be plenty of opportunity for growth once we achieve our goal.

Is it hard to maintain?

• No, it’s not hard to maintain. It may be a lifestyle, but it’s not a trend. It’s not a phase. It’s not a statement (although it can be used as one). It is NOT a dare, or gimmick or hobby.

Why don’t you use heat ?

• Heat damage can happen to anyone. Yes, even you! Heat damage is a real thing and it’s not just for those who naturally have curly or kinky hair.
• Natural hair is more delicate than relaxed hair. If you don’t know how to care for your natural tresses, you can easily cause damage from using heat styling tools like blow dryers, curling irons and flat irons.
• Heat causes breakage and split ends when used improperly or too often on the same section of hair without allowing the ends to rest in between sessions with heat styling tools such as blow dryers or flat irons – which leads us right into our next point…
• The goal should be long lasting curls not short lived ones; therefore it’s important that before any kind of chemical service (relaxers) are applied an assessment needs to be done first so nothing goes wrong later on down the road after frequent use of these types of products .

So how long does it take for your hair to grow?

Have you ever been asked this question? If so, you’re not alone. While it may seem obvious that your hair grows at a rate of about 1/2 inch per month (on average), many people don’t understand how much variation there can be between individuals. Your hair growth rate depends on your age and ethnicity; women with curly hair tend to have faster growth than those with straight or wavy strands. Additionally, external factors like diet and stress impact the rate at which your tresses lengthen.

So although most people’s answers will fall within the general range of 3-4 inches per year (or 1/2 inch per month), they won’t necessarily match up with yours exactly! You might also want to consider whether or not these estimates take into account any damage caused by coloring or heat styling tools before saying anything in reply!

When are you going to straighten it?

• “When are you going to straighten it?”
• “Can I touch it?”
• “How do you wash your hair?”
• “How often do you wash your hair?”

Your hair is really big! Can I touch it?

You should never touch someone’s hair without their permission. It’s not a petting zoo, and it’s not something that you can just do on a whim. If you want to touch my hair, ask me first!

You should also keep in mind that natural hair is often different from person to person—that means no two heads of curls look exactly alike, even if they’re both “curly.” This means that there are going to be variations in the size of the curl pattern from one head of hair to another. Just because I have long, thick curls that sit atop my shoulders doesn’t mean yours will look like mine when you get them styled by your stylist. You don’t need me or anyone else telling you this; just take a moment and really think about it before approaching us with your question about whether or not our tresses are big enough for you to play with freely (they probably aren’t).

Let us be people with natural hair in peace.

I get it. You want to know what the big deal is. I mean, you’re a natural-haired person who can just wash your hair with shampoo and conditioner and get on with your life (I don’t know why that sounds like a given, but it often feels like this). But let’s take a deep breath and remember one thing: there’s no comparison between our experiences.

It isn’t really about us being sensitive or touchy about our hair; it’s about how we’re tired of being asked invasive questions, even if they are well-meaning. It’s also about how we feel when someone makes an assumption that we don’t care about our own appearance because of how we wear our hair in public spaces—even though there are plenty of reasons why someone might choose not to straighten their locks outside of beauty standards or societal pressures.

It’s not just about us either—it extends beyond race too! So many women have been taught from childhood that their bodies are public property; whether that means unwanted touching by strangers or men making unsolicited comments on their appearance, women should never feel comfortable in their own skin unless they look like something out of Vogue magazine every day (#freethenipple). For example: black women have historically been portrayed as less attractive than white women in advertisements only because they were considered “too dark” for mass consumption; yet today those same companies still use racial stereotypes such as “The Angry Black Woman” trope despite its harmful impact on society (think CNN anchor Don Lemon).